Posted on February 12 2020
Is A Ring Proposal The Only Kind Of Proposal?
To finally realize that you want to spend a lifetime with someone is probably the most exhilarating, inspiring, and nerve-wracking feeling ever. I’m pretty sure that as soon as you resolve to pop the big question, your head just spirals into overdrive and you are drowned by multitudes of questions that don’t seem to have definite answers.
Should I really be proposing now?
What if she doesn’t feel the same way?
How will I react if I receive a rejection?
And so on and so forth. I get you. Realizing that you have someone so precious to you that you wish to spend the rest of your life with them is both a blessing and a curse. It’s a blessing because you finally know what you want but also a curse because you don’t know if that is also what the other person wants. Seriously now, it’s a feeling that puts you to the very edge. You go back and forth from thinking “Should you or should you not propose?”
For once, I really don’t know what to do or what to say in this kind of situation. I’m pretty much just as clueless as you are. So I say you should just do whatever you feel is natural. After all, it’s really not about the answer now, is it? I think that more than anything, all you want to do is convey. After all is said and done, all you really want to do is express your heart’s deepest and most ardent desire to the woman in your life – the desire to spend a lifetime with her. Now, whether that receives a yes or no is hardly the matter here. You just have to face this head-on and give it everything you’ve got.
Still, getting a NO kind of blows – doesn’t it? I’m pretty sure that a nasty rejection will leave you dazed for days. Of course you would want her to say yes! If you can help it, you wouldn’t take any other answer! This is why it is important that you set the mood right. You need to find the perfect place, build the right atmosphere, and time the proposal right. Oh, just thinking about it again riles you up, huh?
How Does One Propose Anyway?
Well, the most common way to propose marriage to a woman is through a ring proposal. You know how a guy gets down on one knee and says the sweet phrase “Will you marry me?” with all sincerity? That kind of proposal. It’s what you see in movies, read in books, and even witness on some occasions if you’re lucky (or unlucky enough) to come across a love-maddened couple who’s about to get hitched. I’m sure that you dream to have this kind of momentous occasion in your life too. After all, you would do everything to make the woman in your life happy. And it just so happens that society tells you that the best way to do it is through a ring proposal.
As for the ring, it has got to be that kind with the huge chunk of diamond on top right? It should illuminate brilliance and shine like no other. It should be something that could make any girl swoon with one look – or not.
You know, not every girl out there is materialistic. In fact, modern women are not easily impressed by riches and wealth. Rather than that, being viewed as an equal, as a real partner in life and not just some home decoration, is something that appeals to them the most. In case you haven’t noticed, the women of today are fiercer, stronger, and surer of themselves. They will not be easily wooed by material things alone. They can buy those things for themselves for they are just as capable as you are when it comes to making money.
So do you know how you can make your proposal feel closer to heart? You have to make it about her and not about what you can do for her. If you’ve been together for a long time now, you should know the things your girl likes and dislikes. You should have an idea about what it is that makes her heart flutter. This does not mean that you cannot propose with a diamond ring. Women are still lovers of tradition. Plus, the ring is a great symbol of everlasting union. All I’m trying to say is that maybe, you can try to switch things up. Maybe get more creative with the ring or plan a grand proposal that’s meaningful to your girl.
Does she love nature perhaps? Then maybe a trip to the countryside or a dinner in a log cabin would be a nice change of pace? Maybe you can even get a classy wood ring to match the occasion? If this is something your woman would like, our customized wood ring packages are sure to help out.
Or, maybe your girl is in love with the stars. Why not take her to a planetary or somewhere you can stargaze? Maybe get her a ring with adorable little stars on them? Thing is, you just have to make the moment special for her. It will really tell your girl how much you pay attention to her, how much her actions get through to you. You need to let her know that you care enough to love what she loves.
If you do this, you will surely sweep her off her feet. For what better man can you spend a lifetime with than someone who truly understands you?